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My Cat Hates Grooming—What Can I Do About It?

  • Nurul
  • May 16
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 17

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Introduction

My cat hates grooming—what can I do about it?

If grooming your cat feels like preparing for battle, you're not alone. Many Malaysian cat owners struggle with brushing, bathing, or even trimming their cat’s claws. But with the right approach, you can reduce your cat’s stress—and yours too.


Why Some Cats Hate Grooming

Cats are naturally clean animals, but they can still dislike being groomed by humans. Reasons include:

  • Past negative experiences (like painful brushing)

  • Fear of water or unfamiliar handling

  • Noise and smells from grooming tools

  • Loss of control during the process

Understanding the root of their discomfort is the first step toward solving the problem.


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Signs Your Cat Is Stressed During Grooming

Look out for these signs of grooming anxiety:

  • Growling or hissing

  • Hiding or trying to escape

  • Flattened ears or swishing tail

  • Excessive meowing or panting

  • Biting or scratching

If your cat shows these behaviours, it’s important to pause and try a gentler method.



How to Make Grooming Less Stressful at Home

Here are practical tips to help your cat get used to grooming:

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  • Start slow

Let your cat sniff brushes or grooming tools before using them. Begin with short, gentle strokes and offer treats as rewards.


  • Create a calm environment

Use a soft towel, quiet room, and speak in a soothing tone. Play relaxing music to reduce anxiety.




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  • Use the right tools

Soft-bristled brushes and grooming gloves are better for sensitive cats. Avoid loud or vibrating tools if your cat gets easily startled.


  • Make it routine

Groom for a few minutes daily instead of a long session once a month. Cats respond well to consistency.




When to Consider Professional Help

If your cat continues to resist, a professional cat groomer might be the answer. Experts can:

  • Handle nervous or aggressive cats safely

  • Use specialised equipment for comfort

  • Identify skin or coat issues early

Choose a groomer with experience in feline care and positive reviews from other cat owners.


Choosing a Groomer That Understands Cats

Not all pet groomers are cat-savvy. Look for services that:

  • Offer cat-only grooming slots

  • Have quiet, pet-friendly environments

  • Allow owner observation or updates during the session

A good groomer will also explain the process and tailor it to your cat’s needs, not rush it.



How to Prepare Your Cat Before a Grooming Appointment

A little preparation can make a big difference in your cat’s grooming experience. Here's how to get your cat ready:

  • Trim nails a day before, if possible, to avoid accidental scratching during transport

  • Get your cat used to the carrier by leaving it open at home with treats inside

  • Avoid feeding right before to prevent motion sickness

  • Bring a familiar blanket or toy to comfort your cat

  • Talk to your cat calmly on the way to the appointment

The more relaxed your cat is before arriving, the smoother the grooming session will go.

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Did You Know?

😾 Cats can become more sensitive to grooming as they age, especially if they develop arthritis or skin issues.

🧴 Some cat grooming salons in Malaysia offer calming treatments like aromatherapy baths and gentle brushing routines to reduce stress.


Conclusion

Grooming doesn’t have to be a nightmare—for you or your cat. By starting slow, creating a calm space, and seeking help when needed, you can turn grooming into a manageable, even pleasant routine. Your cat may never love it, but with time, they can definitely tolerate it.


FAQs

1. How do I brush a cat that hates being touched?

Start with soft brushes or grooming gloves, and offer treats during short sessions to build trust.


2. Is it okay to sedate a cat for grooming?

Only under veterinary supervision. Sedation should be a last resort for extreme cases.


3. Can I bathe my cat at home?

Yes, but only if your cat tolerates water. Use lukewarm water and cat-safe shampoo. Avoid force if they panic.


4. How often should I groom my indoor cat?

Short-haired cats: once a week. Long-haired cats: several times a week to prevent matting.


5. Are there grooming centres in Malaysia that specialise in cats?

Yes! Look for cat-specific grooming services or pet hotels that offer feline-only grooming slots.



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